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She said, “I need help…” Trisha Wilson, Executive Director

We’d just opened the Mobile Medical Unit when we saw her quickly approach. As she came closer our eyes met, and she quietly asked “I need help. Can you help me?” With that our divine appointment began.

Marcie* was visibly upset. She’d suspected for a while that she was pregnant…with the wrong guy…again. Severely sick with nausea, Marcie had missed several weeks of work. She’d researched her options and decided that she would abort to “spare this innocent child” from a dysfunctional and abusive father. Twice she had made an abortion appointment and twice she had not shown up. “I have to have an abortion; I know it’s my only choice but I just have to be sure and I know I can trust you. I know that here I am safe.”

Marcie had been to Pregnancy Resources with her first pregnancy, and she’d made a lasting connection with a member of our team. Marcie had decided that if she were able, she’d go through with the abortion pill procedure as soon as our appointment wrapped up. After her pregnancy test, the nurse performed an ultrasound. Marcie stared at the screen intently. The image was clear, the heartbeat strong, and measurements confirmed that Marcie was at the beginning of her second trimester.

There were many tears. There was a great deal of fear. There was tender encouragement and prayer. At the end of the appointment, there was a decision…a decision to protect her child…both the daughter at home and the child she will meet next spring.

*Client name changed for confidentiality

Beautiful…Beth Bill, Staff Nurse

She sits in the chair across from me, her eyes peering above her face mask. The pregnancy test was positive, and she looks even more nervous than before, even if all I can see are her eyes. She explains that she is unsure of what to do, but she is very doubtful that carrying the pregnancy is something she can do. Her living situation is unstable, and she believes she cannot bring a baby into the home. Her boyfriend waits in the lobby but has told her that it’s her decision. They leave serious and quiet but will return that afternoon for the ultrasound.

As one of the nurses at Pregnancy Resources, I’ve witnessed the effect of seeing ultrasound images of a fetus. It can be a powerful moment for a pregnant woman to look at the ultrasound screen and see a tiny embryo with a heartbeat with her own eyes. Numerous times, I’ve needed to pause and reach for the Kleenex box and offer my patient a tissue. The tears well up in her eyes and slide down her cheeks. To say it is overwhelming is an understatement. During normal fetal development, cardiac activity begins in an embryo of 5 weeks gestation. During the 6th week of gestation, tracing the fetal heart rate is one of the metrics we perform. But honestly, we nurses never know how the ultrasound images will affect our individual patients. Will they choose to look at the screen? If there is a heartbeat, what significance will that have on her, especially if she thinks abortion is her only option? And so we quietly pray.

The young girlfriend and boyfriend return for the ultrasound. Neither work today so it’s a good day to come back for the scan. Moments later, she is laying on the exam table, with her boyfriend standing next to the table near her face. The large screen turns on and within her uterus, there is a 4mm embryo with a heartbeat, flickering white. Their faces stare at the screen and they say little. The exam is complete. I take the young man from the ultrasound room to the consultation room to wait for his girlfriend. As he enters the room, I ask, “So what did you think of the ultrasound?” I am not prepared for his answer – I have never heard it put this way before…

“That was Beautiful. All I needed to see was the beating heart.”

Yes, I agree young man. What we just witnessed was beautiful. Life is beautiful. Even a 4mm embryo with a heartbeat is beautiful. Ultrasound allows us to see the beauty of fetal life that God creates within a pregnant woman. This technology has become a Godsend to our culture. A culture that needs to see that life is beautiful. Next week 12 more ultrasound appointments are scheduled. Your continued support will allow those couples who feel scared and overwhelmed to see that LIFE is BEAUTIFUL.

Anne’s Story part 2…Beth Bill, R.N., Staff Nurse

Serving as the center nurse, I was able to meet with Anne* and Mike* for their scheduled ultrasound appointment about two weeks later. Anne seemed happy and relaxed as I called her name and took her to the ultrasound room. Before discussing her medical history, I asked how she was feeling about the pregnancy and if she was still considering an abortion. Right away Anne answered back with a broad smile that she was going to have the baby. Since the patient notes indicated that Anne had presented as strongly abortion-minded at her pregnancy test appointment, I asked her what had changed. She explained that she and Mike finally made the time to talk through the pregnancy and they decided they wanted to have the baby. Anne said that abortion was off the table and no longer an option. When it was time to see the baby on the screen, Mike was brought into the room.

Both mom and dad turned their faces toward the screen and began grinning as they saw their 9 week gestation baby for the first time. After the scan, I asked if they wanted to watch a brief fetal development video. They happily agreed and I noticed that both parents were staring intently at the iPad. I’m thankful that after praying for them and saying “amen”, I happened to notice “dad” wiping tears from his eyes. These parents DID embrace the value of this little life – Praise the Lord!

*clients names changed

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